I dont get it. Are we not civilized people? Are we not living in a modern world?
And yet, why is this typical discrimination against women still exist?
Why cant YOU just accept that I am good at doing my job? Must it be a threat to you? I am honest at sharing with you the experience and knowledge and yet you dare to give me a SMIRK, ROLLED YOUR EYES, and GAVE ME THE MOST NEGATIVE COMMENTS just to put me down? Cant one person's achievements become someone else's joy as well?
I never brag about what I have, but yet, you love to make me feel like you have a better life/job/easier tasks at hand whenever you have a single moment to do so.
Is it so hard to be a little bit respectful? Or is just so easy to be so disrespectful?
My dear friend, we are in the same boat, but please respect what I do and be supportive - as there's nothing else that i've done for you except for being supportive of you, and always covering up your ass's mistakes!!!!!
My psychological analysis/interpretation:
ReplyDelete(1) Yes, it's so obviously jealousy. When one can't acknowledge the other person's success.
(2) Moreover pass negative comments at every chance. In psychology, that just screams desperation. Yes, they are desperate on the lookout, ever watchful, to put you down at every chance.
(3) Unfortunately they can't seem to find any loopholes, so they end up creating/making up... that would be the peak of their desperation.
(4) But be careful, as the most desperate enemy can be the most dangerous sometimes... as well as the most pathetic.
(5) Don't worry, they DO respect you. They just won't show it or admit it. Ego. Consider their negative comments as a positive feedback in disguise.
(6) Another theory in psychology is that, negative comments are actually paradoxical in the sense that (a) it's a compliment (as point #5), and (b) it's not directed at you. It's directed at themselves. At THEIR own failures. It's something like an anti-projection, using you as the medium to scorn and comment all the negative things which they actually, subconsciously, aim at themselves. Poor unfortunate souls.
So girl... be SMUG. The fact that they're behaving like such jerks is an obvious sign that you've already won the war. No point bothering with the petty battles.