How DOUCHE are you?

I once had this personal experience myself... but it's not time to tell the same story, as what I've witness few days ago.

It was a day that I wish to have lunch at somewhere I can relate to reality i.e. observing people with multi-characters. I invited my friend to have a nice meal for lunch. We went to a known shopping mall's food court as it was the only place that I can think of at that time after a stressful day at work. We bought our lunch, sat at a decent table. She was getting us drinks when I watched someone relived the moments that I used to have before.

It was a couple, having lunch together, not sure whether in a love-relationship or just friends. They definitely looked like in their 20s. I sure do acknowledge that the guy thinks he was the most good looking guy in the neighbourhood, whereby all I see is just a douche bag doing his thang. The girl was 'O-K', but it was not her that I wished to judge.

The girl, (let's call her Girl A) was telling him something, and he was busy texting. The girl rambled on and on, pretty much enthusiastic with what she was talking about. Then suddenly, our douche guy, perked up. Another couple walked in, trying to find a table, a place to sit. He was looking at the girl (Girl B), with full attentiveness (I can tell you, more attentive and full of concentration watching Girl B, more than paying attention to our dear Girl A's talking). Douche guy watched Girl B until she finally found a suitable table, and sat down. All this while, I did not get a chance to see the Girl B's face as she was facing the other way, I could only see her long straight locks. When I finally get to see her face, she was another 'O-K' category, but probably with her long hair, she seemed more attractive than Girl A.

Now, poor little Girl A was busy rambling, looking down at her plate, trying to nicely arrange her food into her nice little spoon, that she finally realised the douche's silence was not because he was listening, but was actually busy watching Girl B. When douche guy finally done with his I-deserve-to-stare-any-female-because-I-am-a-douche stare at Girl B, he finally looked back at Girl A - who was looking back at douche guy, and mouth was wide open in disbelief.

All I can say is, FINE.. BE A GUY.. watch a girl without blinking your eyes as you think you have every right to do that. But must you do it out of being disrespectful to the person who was with you? Go ahead, watch her, stare at her, but 2-3 seconds is enough for your whatever judgement that is going on in your head, don't you think? Seriously, how more of a douche can you be???