Entering this small town, with such small circle of friends can be a little bit destructive. Being a new member of this small family, plenty of mind manipulation has been forced upon me, to actually 'choose your friends wisely'. Some were said hypocrites, and those who made the accusation themselves are hypocrites, which has forced me to become a hypocrite too. Probably people do not have any better things to do, besides talking behind someone's back, without confronting them. This, i'm referring to both sides of the football field. I maybe new to this environment, but i am definitely not new in this such poisonous atmosphere. Sometimes, certain things are better said to the person that you have a feud/misunderstanding, confront them, rather than talk behind our backs, and telling the world, you are the only victim in this wonderful picture. If I have a problem with someone, I tell that particular someone the truth, and "let's settle this with more civilised way", rather than ranting like a child on a blog which you can easily manipulate the truth!!! It's not that big of deal, people!!! We were born with mouth and ears to TALK and LISTEN looongggg before this technology has been created!!! You got a problem with me, say it to my face. Don't go behind my back telling people you've been victimized. Enough that you did with the others (which thanks to you, now I believe them), and now you wanna mess around me too??
I'll be the bigger person.
And you'll be looking like fool.
Am just saying!
Cheers!
WOOT! I'm LOVING your excellent use of words... esp.: "This, i'm referring to both sides of the football field. I maybe new to this environment, but i am definitely not new in this such poisonous atmosphere." TWO THUMBS UP for that one.
ReplyDeleteI guess its just universal. No matter where you are, what you do, there WILL always be f***-ups.